A Bigback’s Dignity

I saw a meme where a child about six of seven years old started singing “big back, big back “ as a young lady passed by. The mother immediately apologized on behalf of her child. Luckily the woman’s face wasn’t shown so her dignity remained in tact. I thought, damn , that must have felt bad to hear while walking by. There are many instance where people say the harshest things to us. What to do in that situation?

Personally a I feel a little round of Mortal Kombat action scene isn’t out of the equation. Maybe a flying kick with a sub zero ice things in the mix. Of course the lady handle it with grace and kept walking. In that moment, I felt proud of her. Dear stranger, good for you! However, it got me thinking how big is my back?

One of my personal motto besides “God Loves Me” is the “Universe Loves Me” . No sooner after I had that thought, I receive photo from my friend of guess what? My back! I kid you not friend. Let me tell you about it.

I called myself trying to surprise her at her daughter’s tennis match and called to see where she was seated. To our surpirse, she was on the road heading in the opposite direction of me, the match was over.

That was a good laugh. We met up at the mall and strolled, keke while my husband and niece shopped. In one particular moment, my niece grabbed my hand as we were headed to the next destination.

My friend secretly snapped a candid black and white photo. I was so sweet. The young lady who I helped raised was now a teenager and taller than her short little auntie. It was super kute.

Back to the subject at hand though, my back! It was like that biblical scripture “as far as the east is from the west” discribing the lords thoughts form yours but in this instance, I felt it was most appropriate to descirbe my back.

Girl, when did I become a conjoined twin? It’s big enought for two people. I thought to do push up but hell no, what if it made it bigger? Surley there is an answer for how to unbig baack yourself.

Hold that though , while I review everytihng that I already know to do , just to waste time in actually doing it. Be right back…maybe.

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